WHY I END UP COMING HOME IN MANY CITIES? (REASON, POSITIVE AND NEGATIVE SIDES)
So it all began since I was born in 1996. My mom and dad were married in 1995, before they're officially graduated. They're not a college friend, my dad met my mom in my mom's house or actually store, then he fell in love lol. So my dad wasn't a man with a job who wanna marry a woman, he didn't have a job and began to start working after graduated. That means I was born in a 'hard situation', but that's not what I wanna share to you. I wanna share our adventures 😍
I was born in Jogja on September 1996 and we stayed in Jogja till November 1996 cause finally my dad had a job in Cikarang but we moved to Cirebon (my grandma from my dad's home). So that's when the 'adventure' started, we also moved to Subang (December 1997- October 1998), back to Cirebon (that's when my bestie's born in October till December 1998), then to Tasikmalaya (Decemmber 1998- August 1999), Palangkaraya (August 1999- September 2000), Mojokerto (September 2000- March 2003), Balikpapan (March 2003- January 2006), Bandung (January 2006- May 2011), Semarang (June 2011- November 2016), aaand finally my home is in Medan now sin November 2016. How complicated is that😆 But I don't feel that's complicated, I think that's cool. Just because the job of my dad, I could go to those cities, this wasn't an ordinary experience I think.
My favorite city so far is Bandung. Why? because it has soooooo maaaanyyyyy beautifuuul but also bad memories. I learned a lot of things from a lot of tragedies when I was in Bandung. Bandung also has many beautiful places for us to enjoy every weekends, not ever weekends actually lol. I was a teenage when in Bandung, soooo you know what teenage's like (I don't have to tell the details right? 😄). But what I didn't like about being in Bandung is I felt like I start being a different person in a bad thing. Yeah you know, I had to adapt in every places I belong to, so my adaptation had made me different I think. I wasn't being so true about my self just for this adaptation but I had to sosialize and make some friendst. When I was in Bandung, I also joined my dad to work in many towns or cities in West Java, so I could be in Garut, Tasikmalaya (again), Ciamis, Banjar, Cianjur, Sukabumi, Indramayu, Cirebon (again), Subang (again), Purwakarta, Bekasi, Karawang, Cikampek, Sumedang, Majalengka,Kuningan and Bogor (well maybe that's all cities and towns in West Java, but I didn't went to ever region of it).
So that's the positive things about being moving city to city. Another positive side about it also I knew how those cities is, how's their people, their culture, their habits and a lot of things about those cities. And when I started studying about geography, I felt so grateful :). To adapt in every cities is also the positive side, so I could be open minded of what I should do, I have to learn how people accept me so I could feel exist around them. When I was in Balikpapan, I spoke with how Mojokerto people spoke, you know 'medok', and my friends in Balikpapan were laughing me but I didn't exactly know why because maybe I was too innocence to realize how medok I was 😆. The negative side about always being moving is I didn't have a chemistry with my neighbors since I was in Bandung, because I started being older and I didn't have many conversations also with my neighbors. My parents also had to change or had something to do with their identity cards every time we moved, but they're started to stop that after we're in Semarang lol. The last negative side I can tell you is we didn't have a permanent house, so we're rent every time we moved. That's why my parents should save some moneys to buy a house. But I feel those negative sides aren't a big deal(except the last one), I'm still happy to live this way 😊
That's all I can share about my reason of being moving and also the positive and negative sides of it. Hope it can useful or maybe inspire you to live this kinda way lol
Me and my bestie in Tasikmalaya
I was born in Jogja on September 1996 and we stayed in Jogja till November 1996 cause finally my dad had a job in Cikarang but we moved to Cirebon (my grandma from my dad's home). So that's when the 'adventure' started, we also moved to Subang (December 1997- October 1998), back to Cirebon (that's when my bestie's born in October till December 1998), then to Tasikmalaya (Decemmber 1998- August 1999), Palangkaraya (August 1999- September 2000), Mojokerto (September 2000- March 2003), Balikpapan (March 2003- January 2006), Bandung (January 2006- May 2011), Semarang (June 2011- November 2016), aaand finally my home is in Medan now sin November 2016. How complicated is that😆 But I don't feel that's complicated, I think that's cool. Just because the job of my dad, I could go to those cities, this wasn't an ordinary experience I think.
Us when we were in Balikpapan with grannies
My favorite city so far is Bandung. Why? because it has soooooo maaaanyyyyy beautifuuul but also bad memories. I learned a lot of things from a lot of tragedies when I was in Bandung. Bandung also has many beautiful places for us to enjoy every weekends, not ever weekends actually lol. I was a teenage when in Bandung, soooo you know what teenage's like (I don't have to tell the details right? 😄). But what I didn't like about being in Bandung is I felt like I start being a different person in a bad thing. Yeah you know, I had to adapt in every places I belong to, so my adaptation had made me different I think. I wasn't being so true about my self just for this adaptation but I had to sosialize and make some friendst. When I was in Bandung, I also joined my dad to work in many towns or cities in West Java, so I could be in Garut, Tasikmalaya (again), Ciamis, Banjar, Cianjur, Sukabumi, Indramayu, Cirebon (again), Subang (again), Purwakarta, Bekasi, Karawang, Cikampek, Sumedang, Majalengka,Kuningan and Bogor (well maybe that's all cities and towns in West Java, but I didn't went to ever region of it).
One of my favorite places in Bandung, that's Kawah Putih, Ciwidey 💚
So that's the positive things about being moving city to city. Another positive side about it also I knew how those cities is, how's their people, their culture, their habits and a lot of things about those cities. And when I started studying about geography, I felt so grateful :). To adapt in every cities is also the positive side, so I could be open minded of what I should do, I have to learn how people accept me so I could feel exist around them. When I was in Balikpapan, I spoke with how Mojokerto people spoke, you know 'medok', and my friends in Balikpapan were laughing me but I didn't exactly know why because maybe I was too innocence to realize how medok I was 😆. The negative side about always being moving is I didn't have a chemistry with my neighbors since I was in Bandung, because I started being older and I didn't have many conversations also with my neighbors. My parents also had to change or had something to do with their identity cards every time we moved, but they're started to stop that after we're in Semarang lol. The last negative side I can tell you is we didn't have a permanent house, so we're rent every time we moved. That's why my parents should save some moneys to buy a house. But I feel those negative sides aren't a big deal(except the last one), I'm still happy to live this way 😊
That's all I can share about my reason of being moving and also the positive and negative sides of it. Hope it can useful or maybe inspire you to live this kinda way lol
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